Questions

I don't post here often, and as I have no real readership I thought this would be a good place to think out loud, so to speak...

It is in regard to someone I've met a couple of times - that upon meeting I considered to be a fine young adult. Actually, the words that came to mind were "a noble, trustworthy, guardian angel", but I wouldn't want to embarrass them.

I believe this person is interested in one treasure, in particular, that I was blessed with from God. This treasure - however - is rather closemouthed, and has made it clear that they won't discuss this other person and their relationship with that person - with me.

That is fine and I respect these intentions. However I do not know if my instincts regarding this other person were correct. Is this person really decent and honorable? Or a bs artist with an honest exterior who has - among other things - dishonestly numbered my angel among at least one other relationship?

I don't know how to determine the answer, and am wondering what others would do if they found themselves confronted with a similar situation regarding someone THEY cared about? If my initial instincts are correct and this person is indeed a mature, kind adult, then my questions and concerns will be happily forgotten...

But...what if I'm wrong? How then to let this person know that if they aren't interested in a relationship with only one person, they should definitely be moving along?